4 QUESTIONS ABOUT SEX
Does size really matter?
It’s on the tip of the tongue of every man: Is my penis too small?
The jury is still out on this one, but experts believe that in certain cases, the size of the penis can certainly play a pivotal role in pleasure. “Women with larger vulva may need a larger penis to reach the stimulation needed [to] arouse the clitoris. Also for women who experience G-spot arousal, a man with a smaller penis may not be able to reach and stimulate it, A woman with a shorter vagina may have difficulty or pain receiving a larger penis.
The average penis size is 5-6 inches. That being said, there are definitely ways to make penetrative sex amazing, regardless of size.
How deep is a vagina supposed to be?
Many women are self-conscious about their vaginal canals. There’s a lot of pressure to be “tight” and an equal amount of pressure on men to be able to “fill up” the whole barrel.
The vaginal canal varies in length and when aroused, it can expand exponentially. “This is why foreplay is so important for many women, especially when they have baseline shorter canals. The vaginal canal can be anywhere from 3-4 inches long at rest, but I've seen women whose vagina's were more like 6-7 inches,
The vagina is much like a sock being held together by an elastic band. It can stretch out and then return to a normal size. On that lovely note, there’s no such thing as getting “loose” from too much sex. The only thing that makes a vagina droop is time and age.
How do women have orgasms during sex?
Much of orgasmic pleasure comes from the clitoris. We've got to stop putting so much pressure on women to come during penetration.
“The majority of women experience an orgasm through clitoral stimulation during sex. This is due to the number of nerve endings in the clitoral area. This stimulation whether by hand, finger, or toy can produce an orgasm during penetrative sex.
Every woman has unique experiences during sex. Some women can have orgasms through the G-spot alone, but most cannot. “Some can have an orgasm with the G-spot. Some can have an orgasm through the movement of the clitoris during sex. Every woman is a little different. A little special..
The key to pleasure? Knowing your body and being aware of what sensations feel good to you.
Is the G-spot a real thing?
Oh, the ever elusive G-spot: The confusion and terror of the sexually repressed masses. The G-spot actually does not exist. Of course, this isn't the whole answer which high-key makes the G-spot so befuddling.
As pioneering sex researcher Dr. Beverly Whipple discovered, the G-spot isn’t its own thing, it’s part of the clitoral network. When arousing the G-spot, you’re actually stimulating the apex of the clitoris — the backend — internally.
“It can be difficult for some women to find this area. This doesn’t mean that the individual is broken or flawed, it’s just that they haven’t been able to connect and experience pleasure from this area being stimulated,” says Overstreet.
You can locate the “G-spot” by inserting a wand toy or finger into the vaginal canal and lifting upward in a rocking horse motion. It’s less of a “spot” and more of an area. It’s a patch of spongy tissue near the urethral sponge.
